Tiles
At the end of last summer, a plume of smoke billowed from the bath when I turned it on. This is in Yokohama, Japan, and the water heater is instantaneous kind, which is popular here. Everything in the bathroom was more than 40 years old except the water heater, which was about 25 years old. I decided to remodel the bathroom and looked forward to seeing new white bathtub and tiles.
To prepare for the renovation, I expected some bumping into people, which I call it boomerang culture shock. It had hit me before when I least expected it. So, to lessen some bumps ahead, I told myself to pay attention even if I disagreed with people. After I met the tile worker for the first time and heard his concerns and recommendations, I told him that I wanted the bathroom walls to be covered with common white tiles, which I have been used to, therefore I feel safe.
“There are different colors of white,” the tile worker said.
“The white I want is the white tiles that are still there in my bathroom,” I said.
He had examined my bathroom when he first came to see me.
“I don’t like small tiles. I’d rather work with large tiles,” he said.
From the way he talked, small tiles were out of fashion, so not many tile makers produced them nowadays. If that were true, I had to choose large tiles. Importing the tiles I wanted would be too heavy therefore too expensive. Local tiles should suffice. Anyhow, the tile worker would order some sample tiles and bring them to me.
Following week, he visited me with some samples. The tiles were thick and heavy with sharp edges and corners. I preferred round edges and corners, which made me feel safe. Among the almost white tiles, there were grayish white, pinkish white, and one was whiter than those two. He did not bring any catalog.
The tile worker showed me many pictures on his smartphone of various jobs he had done. Every photo appeared to be good, and I thought that showing own works with pride was also a good thing. I complimented looking at his photos, but none of them captured my imagination. I paid attention to what he was telling me.
“I dislike the pattern such as this,” he said, pointing to the shoji in my dining room.
“Well, I like this shoji,” I said.
He said nothing.
The shoji frames must be over 100 years old. I was born in this house, and I had seen my mother renew the white washi papers of the shoji doors growing up. The reason I am fond of white tiles must come from this shoji experience. My daughter and her husband in Sacramento, Calif. also used white common tiles when they remodeled their shower room last year. What is wrong with shoji or white common tiles?
The tile worker told me about his first professional experience. After six months apprenticeship, he got a job, and his first customer gave him a go-sign to do whatever he wanted to get the job done. It was all up to the tile worker.
“So, what was the color of the tiles?” I said.
“Wait a minute, I’ll show you,” he said and rolled the screen of his phone. “Yellow like this.”
Wow! It was golden yellow.
“What did the customer say?”
“The customer told me, ‘That’s the only color I didn’t want you to pick!’”
My goodness! That was a horrifying story I would avoid.
A few days passed, but it seemed that the owner of the construction company and the tile worker did not know exactly what I wanted for the tiles, so I said louder, “The white tile I want is milk white. Milk white!” and repeated. We repeated only our own words in a loop without derailing.
A few weeks passed, but the tile worker and the owner of the construction company still said, "There are many different white tiles. Not the only one."
I understood their concern, so I wanted to make sure they knew what was my preference. To me, white is white in crayons, watercolors, and oil paintings. If you added a little bit of red or blue to the white paint, then the color would be no longer original white. For the bathtub with a reheat option, I had to choose between mist white and moon white. Moon white was yellowish white, and mist white was closer to the white of my choice, but I imagined that it was translucent, looking at the bathtub catalog. I was unsure, but I chose mist white. The bathtub maker produced many models, but not all the models and sizes were in their showroom.
Our exchanges about the tile colors and patterns went back and forth without coming to an agreement. Because I chose the traditional method for this renovation while most Japanese consumers nowadays selected the unit-construction method, so the tile worker was the only person I could rely on if I wanted the bathroom done according to the schedule. I preferred the traditional method, using tiles.
During the on-going discussion, I noticed the word “luxurious” and “looks more expensive” recited. I guessed that they were reluctant to point out that the color and quality of the tiles I preferred were cheap looking to them. I assured them that it was okay. I rather not regret my choice every time I take a bath. I want to feel calm while bathing. The only people who would see the bathroom would be my children and their family members. I was not going to invite many friends and acquaintances to look at my new bathroom. I assured the tile worker and the owner of the construction company about that.
My preference had not changed, and I learned that there were many tile makers still make small tiles, but I did research a little about thick and heavy tiles, which were recommended by both the tile worker and the owner of the construction company.
Surfing the net, I found one large-tile pattern I liked. It looked simple enough, but more complex when I tried to draw the pattern. The fashionable Southwest designs I used to see had large tiles, and I love the Southwest and Spanish-style buildings, but I did not think they would suit my traditional Japanese house in Yokohama with shoji screens, fusuma sliding doors, and tatami mats. Maybe, I should put up a picture of a coyote with cacti against the bathroom window. My grandchildren might enjoy it.
By the way, my son is close to six feet tall, and my son-in-law is taller than him, so I decided to replace the original 90 cm bathtub with a 140 cm one. I would also replace the water heater to the American type since the instantaneous kind takes a long time to fill the tub.
My daughter and her family are coming to visit me in April, and my son-in-law cannot take a bath unless the renovation is complete. The super public-bath-house near me shows a large sign at their entrance, which read, “We strictly forbid the entrance of people with tattoos.” Both my son and his wife also have tattoos. I have never strictly forbidden them to get tattoos.
Mother’s Funeral
In 1996, my mother died of liver cancer. A month earlier, I returned to Japan after 26 years of living in the U.S. although I visited her every November for a week between 1984 and 1995.
After her death on Oct. 1st, I had to make many decisions about her funeral arrangement. This was my first time for such an experience. I needed help. My older brother lives in Nagoya, which is quite far. He and his wife were coming over the next day around 10 am.
A funeral meeting was set up by the funeral parlor staff for the following day at 8 am. They seemed to be very organized so I thought I could handle the arrangement with their help. No big deal, I thought.
During the meeting with the funeral parlor employee, I was asked about the flowers.
“Only white flowers, please,” I said.
“I think adding some colors to white flowers would be better. Nowadays, folks add some western kinds of flowers, too. That is acceptable. We recommend you to add some colors. Everyone does it,” the interviewer said.”
This sounded to me that they gave customers no option other than their seemingly pre arranged flower arrangements. But I confirmed that customers had a free option for flowers.
“No yellow or purple chrysanthemums, please,” I pleaded. “No pink or red or other colored flower arrangement for my mother’s funeral. Please use only white flowers.” I emphasized “only white flowers” if some readers are unsure about it.
I entered the funeral parlor on the day of the funeral. I was stunned to see quite many pink flowers inserted among white flowers. I was very disappointed. If this happened in the U.S., I would have complained, but that probably would not happen as a lawsuit would follow.
Beside the flower’s color, the interviewer also asked me what kind of casket I would like and showed me a catalog. I spotted right away my favorite knotted pine. I love knotted pine. I feel safe and warm with it. If no one was helping me in this interview, it could be shortened, but the interviewer exited the room several times, and my advisor who was a student of my mother, chanoyu teacher, became like a rock. It was taking a long time, but I knew my brother and his wife would be late since I told him there was nothing I could not handle. I was glad I could be some help to him. They arrived with their two girls and his mother-in-law at 11 am.
I had waited for my brother’s arrival before I made the choice of casket, but I could no longer make the funeral parlor wait. I chose the second expensive casket. I do not remember the name of the wood.
“1 : 3”
Going back to my bathroom renovation, the tile worker brought me more samples. I learned that the small tiles (10 or 15 cm or so, and mostly square) come with round-cornered and various individual pieces for just corners and edges, which I liked. Those special pieces for corners and edges were only available for those small tiles. For that reason, I wanted to stick with small tiles.
A while ago, I showed the tile worker a good-looking tile pattern using small tiles, which I found on a Web site. I was unsure of the exact size, but it looked 1:3, 1 being the width, and 3, height.
The owner of the construction company said that the tile worker had searched for 1:3 tiles through more than a few tile makers, but could not find it. He found 1:2 or 1:4, but not 1:3. I was disappointed. Among the new small-tile samples that the owner brought to me, there was a large corrugated-cardboard envelope. Inside must be a large tile, which I was not interested. We were silent. I searched for words to say.
“What is in that envelope?” I said.
The owner opened the envelope and a large and thick white tile appeared. It was faintly grayish white. I stared at it to see if it was 1:3. It looked 1:3. The owner pulled the measuring tape out.
“It’s 20 by 60,” he said.
“But it’s a large tile. Only one or one and a half can be placed on the wall vertically. I don’t think it looks good,” I said.
“No, the tile starts right under the ceiling all the way down to the floor. We need at least three tiles...”
I forgot about the tiles go up all the way to the ceiling. The wall of the old bathroom was tiles up to my waist and plaster above that. It was not what I originally planned, but a different kind of simple design began to emerge in my head.
“Okay, let me think about it,” I said.
“The fourth tiles will be at the bottom, which need to be cut slanted,” he said.
An image of a drainer and the bathtub next to it came to my mind. We wash our body on the bathroom floor, not in the bathtub so that the water must run towards the drain quickly.
For the round-cornered parts, I was told that small white aluminum pipes could be used although the color would not be perfectly match, and the tile worker had much experience using such pipes.
This discussion took place at my former apartment, in which I used to live half of the year when I was in Japan. That was before I moved into the main house. The renter moved away about five years ago.
“Can I take a look at your shower room?” the owner of the construction company said.
“Go right ahead.”
He opened the door of the shower room, and we stared at the walls. Although the walls were not made of tiles, the pattern was vertical lines from the top to the bottom. The owner picked up the 20-by-60-cm tile sample and attached it against a vinyl-resin wall of the shower room.
“It perfectly matched!” he said.
“Living under a lighthouse!” I said. “I forgot about it, but that pattern was there since I remodeled the apartment 15 years ago.”
“When we feel comfortable, we don’t think about it,” he said.
I felt that the owner of the construction company understood me a little. To me, vertical designs often seem to be the Japanese style, and horizontal, Western, like our writing systems.
“Let us settle on this tile,” I said to the owner of the construction company.
“So, is that your decision?”
“Yes!”
© 2023 Keiko Amano
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